Office of Family Life
Role of the Office
The Office of Family Life assists Pastors in preparing couples for marriage and seeks to support and strengthen family life.
Marriage Preparation
The Church rejoices with you and is grateful for the gift of your loving commitment to each other. The Church offers her loving support including special graces from the Holy Spirit through the Sacrament of Marriage to strengthen you in living the fullness of your lives together in marital love.
Staff
Upcoming Events
Reclaiming the Romance Day Retreat: St. Joseph the Worker, Ozark
Reclaiming the Romance Day Retreat: St. Joseph the Worker, Ozark
Have busy schedules kept you from spending quality time with your beloved? The Diocesan Office of Family Life is collaborating with leaders of the WorldWide Marriage Encounter to offer a half day retreat to help married couples reclaim the romance and enrich their mari...
Reclaiming the Romance Day Retreat: Sacred Heart, Bolivar
Reclaiming the Romance Day Retreat: Sacred Heart, Bolivar
Have busy schedules kept you from spending quality time with your beloved? The Diocesan Office of Family Life is collaborating with leaders of the WorldWide Marriage Encounter to offer a half day retreat to help married couples reclaim the romance and enrich their mari...
Cursillo Women’s Retreat: Fredericktown
Cursillo Women’s Retreat: Fredericktown
All women are encouraged to attend the upcoming Cursillo Women’s Retreat at Pinecrest Camp and Conference Center in Fredericktown on November 21-24. Click here for more information and registration.
Cursillo Men’s Retreat: Fredericktown
Cursillo Men’s Retreat: Fredericktown
All men are encouraged to attend the upcoming Cursillo Men’s Retreat at Pinecrest Camp and Conference Center in Fredericktown on December 5-8. Click here for more information and registration.
Wedding Anniversary Celebration: Springfield
Wedding Anniversary Celebration: Springfield
Wedding Anniversary Celebration: Cape Girardeau
Wedding Anniversary Celebration: Cape Girardeau
Annual Catholic Men’s Conference: Springfield
Annual Catholic Men’s Conference: Springfield
Save the Date: February 22, 2025
Marriage Encounter Retreat
Marriage Encounter Retreat
Uncover the secrets to a lasting supportive, transformational marriage! The Marriage Encounter experience helps you listen, share, and connect more deeply with each other. There’s no group discussion. It’s just
Marriage Encounter Retreat
Marriage Encounter Retreat
Uncover the secrets to a lasting supportive, transformational marriage! The Marriage Encounter experience helps you listen, share, and connect more deeply with each other. There’s no group discussion. It’s just
Resources
Natural Family Planning
WHAT IS NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING (NFP)?
Modern Natural Family Planning is 100% natural and up to 99% effective as a family planning method. Read More.
Adoption
Springs of Love: Catholic Foster and Adoption Support
Springs of Love walks with Catholics to discern adoption as a path for their family. Connect with Springs of Love to find real stories shared by adoptees and parents, joys and challenges of the process, and join a supportive community. Springs of Love also encourages Catholics to discern and consider fostering children. Visit their Website for more resources at https://springsoflove.org/.
Adoption is a very personal — very loving — choice for birth parents and adoptive parents. If you’re considering adoption, Catholic Charities of Kansas City-St. Joseph will walk with you every step of the way. Read more.
Catholic Infertility Resources
Almost 1 in 10 couples will face some degree of infertility and rates of infertility have been rising in recent decades. The infertility journey can be frustrating, confusing, and lonely.
Raising Catholic Families
Compass is a database which aims to anticipate the needs of Catholic parents, accompany them through the trials and joys of family life, and point them to faithful answers to life’s difficult questions. Parents may search various topics to find explanations based on Church teaching and suggestions for dialogue with children about some of life’s challenges.
For more information, visit: https://www.
The “challenge” is to engage your family with Sacred Scripture. There is no contest. There are no rules. There is, however, the great benefit of falling in love with Jesus through the power of the Good News found in the Bible.
Freedom from Pornography
The diocese has compiled a list of resources to help those struggling with the harmful effects of pornography. Read more.
Church Teachings on End-of-Life
The bishops of the State of New York developed the following summary of Catholic Church teaching on end-of-life issues. It has been updated and revised in order to reflect and be consistent with Missouri law. For more information on Missouri’s Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care and Planning Tools. Read more
Separated & Divorced Couples - Books
Books
Annulments and the Catholic Church: Straight Answers to Tough Questions – Edward Peters, J.D., J.C.D.
Many questions abound regarding this issue, one which unfortunately touches the lives of many in the Church today. In this helpful book, canon and civil lawyer Edward N. Peters clears up some of the confusion by answering the most commonly-asked annulment questions in a thorough yet easy-to-understand style.
Courage to Love… When Your Marriage Hurts – Gerald Foley
Building on the experience of Retrouvaille, a successful church-sponsored ministry, this book focuses on building relationships. It invites couples to reconciliation, to rebuilding trust, to learning the skills necessary for healthy communication, and to growing spiritually through the lived reality of married life.
December Roses: Pastoral Reflections on Divorce – Hector M. Medina
Though much literature has been written on this topic, this book details the thought processes associated with the planning and execution of a divorce and the painful emotions and feelings which occur, while at the same time providing a means of prayerful healing for those involved in the divorce situation.
The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage – Michele Weiner Davis
In a down-to-earth style, Weiner Davis outlines a realistic, solution-oriented seven-step program for managing marital problems, which, when left unchecked, can drain the life out of a relationship.
How to Understand & Petition for Your Decree of Nullity – Rose Sweet
Only God can see deeply into the human heart. He knows how human frailty and weakness, and inabilities of some people to enter into marriage freely and fully despite their best attempts. After careful study of such an attempted union, the Church may be able to declare that no valid marriage bond was created. And this book will help you understand the process.
Marriage 911: How God Saved Our Marriage – Greg & Julie Alexander
Greg and Julie Alexander thought divorce was the only way out of their lifeless, loveless marriage. Quite unexpectedly, a faithful priest guided them back to the truths of the Church, and as they began to incorporate these truths into their lives, they were able to restore the love they once had for each other. Marriage 911 chronicles their journey back from the brink of divorce to marital happiness built on a strong Catholic faith.
Rebuilding After Divorce: Making Your House a Home Again – Rose Sweet
Whether you’ve recently divorced or it’s been a few years, you can rebuild a life rich in faith, hope, and lots of love. But first, you’ll need blueprints, clear directions to make your house a home again. For over 20 years, Rose Sweet has brought her wit and wisdom to the separated, divorced, and remarried.
Separated & Divorced Couples - Resources
Answers to Common Questions about Separation and Divorce A document prepared by the Archdiocese of St. Louis, with material from Rose Sweet
Divorced Catholic We invite you on a journey back to a life filled with promise and peace. Allow Christ to walk with you as you rediscover His healing and rejuvenating power through the wisdom, richness, and truth of your Catholic faith.
Catholic Divorce Ministry Since 1974, CDM has been committed to the healing and recovery of those who have experienced separation and divorce.
Separated Faithful: Divorced or separated Catholics who remain faithful to marriage. Catholics who were reluctantly divorced or separated can continue to fulfill their marriage mission – to sanctify themselves and your spouse. Discuss the ongoing seven stages from the book, “The Gift of Self, A Spiritual Companion for Separated and Divorced Faithful to the Sacrament of Marriage.” See book review on USCCB. A conference phone call, second-Mondays monthly, at 9 pm. Contact [email protected], with your name, parish, city.
The St. Raymond Nonnatus Foundation: We help families affected by divorce and separation through prayerful accompaniment and support groups.
The St. Raymond Nonnatus Foundation for Freedom, Family, Faith offers spiritual accompaniment for those affected by divorce and separation and families in crisis. They are headquartered in Philadelphia. For more information about the foundation go to www.nonnatus.org. Please subscribe to their YouTube Channel to receive notifications about upcoming podcasts. Subscribe by clicking here. For more information about their services click here to send an email to the director.
Life-Giving Wounds: Catholic Ministry to Adult Children of Divorce or Separation: We offer Christ-centered healing through retreats, support groups, community, spiritual formation, resources & more. Join our events Online or in-person with our chapters across the United States and Canada.